Just me
Jun 1, 2017

Relapse

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I just want to relapse -- ive been clean for a while.. So it sucks that its coming on now... I dont know why but I just really want to.. i just MISS it... And... idk.. how can you not miss somthing like that? I loved it.. I hated it.. Its destroying me and I'm just so -- so sad... No ones here everyone's gone... Help? I don;t know if anyne will answer this but... Idk i thought it was worth a shot.

Project Reasons
Jun 1, 2017Edited: Jun 1, 2017

hey love, I just want to let you know that you ARE STRONG and YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS. I was a self harmer and so I understand the desire to cut. But as im sure you have experienced the feeling after relapse is worse than the feeling before. You know what I mean?? ask yourself how have you stayed clean for so long and then do whatever it was that helped you. If you absolutely NEED to do something -- seriously just feel your pulse or read, do something that wont break skin.

Just me
Jun 1, 2017

But what if.. what if I can't -- I mean I want to break skin... thats the problem.....

Project Reasons
Jun 1, 2017

Do you have a pet? Or a sibling? Or a friend who you can text or call?

Just me
Jun 1, 2017

I mean... Yeah I guess -- I have a dog.. My best friend just ditched me... my parents dont give a crap about me. I literally hate my half sister shes so perfect and ughh

Project Reasons
Jun 1, 2017

Okay, what I want you to do Is to call your dog to you.... Tell me -- what kind of dog is he???

Just me
Jun 1, 2017

*she* She's a golden lab... Okay --I called her..

Project Reasons
Jun 1, 2017

Now what I want you to do is to pet your golden lab and talk to her.. sit next to her and talk to her, Tell her what happened with your friend, tell her why you want to relapse and just cuddle with her... Can you do that??

Just me
Jun 1, 2017

Yeah... Okay -- what if someone hears?

Project Reasons
Jun 1, 2017

*quiet venting* Also, I really suggest getting a mentor, if your parents aren't available -- make your own parents. A coach or a teacher or someone you can trust...

Just me
Jun 1, 2017

Oh.. . yeah I guess thats sorta a good idea.. maybe I can try that... Thanks... I think.. Well I HOPE that I can stay clean tonight....

Project Reasons
Jun 1, 2017

I believe in you <3 You can do this -- If you need anything else: reasonssave@gmail.com

Just me
Jun 1, 2017

I think I might take u up on that one.

Ginger
Jun 19, 2017

Hi "Just Me" Hang in there. Sometimes you get attached to and miss things whether they are healthy for you or not. Whether they were hurting you or not. They can still be habit forming. If you're still struggling, try to let a trusted adult in to help keep you accountable. It sounds like you have good healthy thinking but you need some tools to keep you accountable.

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